The Way ForwardThose who eat too much or eat too little, who sleep too much or sleep too little, will not succeed in meditation. But those who are temperate in eating and sleeping, work and recreation, will come to the end of sorrow through meditation. ~ Bhagavad Gita This post is a repeat of an earlier post in October last year. I've found that information can often bear repeating, as we don't take in everything we hear or read the first time we hear or read it. And since Milka Milicevic, Registered Holistic Nutritionist, and I are once again offering our Stoke Your Inner Fire workshop this Sunday (two spots left; you can register here) it seems timely to offer this post as well.
Picture this: you're staring at a heavenly scented cinnamon bun, dripping with gooey white icing, at a kiosk in the shopping mall. You're tired from last-minute shopping, or exhausted from a long day at work, and want a quick pick-me-up. Although you've promised yourself to cut out sweets because sugar is so bad for you, how do you resist that delicious piece of fragrant gooeyness? Well, exactly. How do you resist? All my life I’ve struggled with eating – how much to eat, when to eat, what to eat. Some people wonder at this, as they look at me and say, “hey, you’re slim, you can’t possibly have any eating issues!” However, the truth often lies under the surface of what seems obvious. I was bulimic in my late teens and stopped only when I began to worry that this practice might eventually cause permanent damage to my health. I studied nutrition and got my undergraduate degree in that subject at university, and still struggled. Over time, with practice, I’ve learned to discern when my body is truly hungry. I’ve learned when I need to eat and when I’m just eating to be sociable. Even up to the present day, however, I can still find myself in situations where I completely lose control and munch away well beyond the point where my body is comfortable or I’m happy. Last fall, I returned from an 18-day vacation where there was so much food at every buffet that my willpower melted away like a puddle of butter on a hot sidewalk. I gained only three pounds, but the slightness of that gain may have been due to my getting a cold halfway through vacation and eating only soup and toast for several days. After a long dreary winter, you may feel, as I do, that you did way more eating than exercising. The dark days of winter are enough to test the willpower of any but the most stalwart among us. And a summer of backyard barbecues and cool creamy desserts lies ahead! Thanks to some sage advice from Kelly McGonigal in her book, The Willpower Instinct, however, there's hope if you want to trim a few pounds and feel healthier for the summer months. Here are some things to consider, according to Professor McGonigal, who is a health psychologist and researcher at Stanford University. Willpower is like a muscle, and is stronger in the morning. You have only so much of it, and if you spend it on one thing you will have less for something else. There are five ways to increase your willpower – what Prof. McGonigal calls “small changes with big effects.” 1. Train your willpower physiology. This includes:
2. Forgive yourself.
b. Understand your common humanity – we all have failures. c. Give yourself encouragement instead of criticism. 3. Make friends with your future self.
4. Predict your willpower failures.
5. Surf the urge. Distress tolerance – how much distress can you stand? This is biggest predictor of achieving goals.
Here is a simple way to apply this:
For the past little while, I’ve been practising “surfing the urge.” Every time I have an impulse to reach for food – breakfast, lunch, dinner or snacks – I notice the impulse, stop, and take six slow breaths. Then, sometimes I will eat, and sometimes I’ll forego it. If you’re ready to increase your willpower, I invite you to try this willpower challenge. For the next week, each time you want to reach for a snack, notice the impulse, stop and take six slow breaths. Notice if the urge changes. And then make a conscious choice – not one based on habit or impulse – to eat or not to eat. (By the way, "surfing the urge" can apply to more than just eating habits. Studies show it can help with a range of issues, including the smoking habit.) If you're keen to learn more, discover fascinating facts about your digestion and how to live healthfully and enjoy it, join Milka Milicevic, Holistic Nutritionist and me for a fun afternoon to Stoke Your Inner Fire this Sunday, April 29 from 1-4 pm. It's an afternoon of discovery, to:
Check out Milka’s blog post on digestion here. Space is limited for this workshop and there are only two spots left, so register early! I look forward to meeting you on the mat!
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